E. Shoshone Department
of Family Services

# 104 Washakie Street
P.O Box #945
Ft. Washakie, WY 82514

Ph: (307) 332-6591/6592
or 856-7870
Fax: (307) 332-6593
 
 

Recognizing Child Abuse: What You Should Know

 
The first step in helping abused children is learning to recognize the symptoms of child abuse. Although child abuse is divided into four types -- physical abuse, neglect, sexual abuse, and emotional maltreatment -- the types are more typically found in combination than alone. A physically abused child for example is often emotionally maltreated as well, and a sexually abused child may be also neglected. Any child at any age may experience any of the types of child abuse. Children over age five are more likely to be physically abused and to suffer moderate injury than are children under age five.

1. Recognizing Child Abuse
2. Signs of Physical Abuse
3. Signs of Neglect
4. Signs of Sexual Abuse
5. Signs of Emotional Maltreatment

RECOGNIZING CHILD ABUSE

Experienced educators likely have seen all forms of child abuse at one
time or another. They are alert to signs like these that may signal the
presence of child abuse.



The Child:


• Shows sudden changes in behavior or school performance;
• Has not received help for physical or medical problems brought to
the parents' attention;
• Has learning problems that cannot be attributed to specific physical or
psychological causes;
• Is always watchful, as though preparing for something bad to happen;
• Lacks adult supervision;
• Is overly compliant, an overachiever, or too responsible; or
• Comes to school early, stays late, and does not want to go home.

The Parent:

• Shows little concern for the child, rarely responding to the school's
requests for information, for conferences, or for home visits;
• Denies the existence of -- or blames the child for -- the child's problems
in school or at home;
• Asks the classroom teacher to use harsh physical discipline
if the child misbehaves;
• Sees the child entirely bad, worthless, or burdensome;
• Demands perfection or a level of physical or academic performance
the child cannot achieve; or
• Looks primarily to the child for care, attention, and satisfaction
of emotional needs.

The Parent and Child:

• Rarely touch or look at each other;
• Consider their relationship entirely negative; or
• State that they do not like each other.
None of these signs proves that child abuse is present in a family.
Any of them may be
found in any parent or child at one time or another.
But when these signs appear
repeatedly or in combination, they should
cause the educator to take closer look at the
situation and to consider the
possibility of child abuse. That second look may reveal
further signs of
abuse or signs of a particular kind of child abuse.

SIGNS OF PHYSICAL ABUSE

Consider the possibility of physical abuse when the child:

• Has unexplained burns, bites, bruises, broken bones, or black eyes;
• Has fading bruises or other marks noticeable after an absence from school;
• Seems frightened of the parents and protests or cries when it is time to
go home from school;
• Shrinks at the approach of adults; or
• Reports injury by a parent or another adult caregiver.

Consider the possibility of physical abuse when the parent or
other adult caregiver:


• Offers conflicting, unconvincing, or no explanation for the child's injury;
• Describes the child as "evil," or in some other very negative way;
• Uses harsh physical discipline with the child; or
• Has a history of abuse as a child.
SIGNS OF NEGLECT

Consider the possibility of neglect when the child:

• Is frequently absent from school;
• Begs or steals food or money from classmates;
• Lacks needed medical or dental care, immunizations, or glasses;
• Is consistently dirty and has severe body odor;
• Lacks sufficient clothing for the weather;
• Abuses alcohol or other drugs; or
• States there is no one at home to provide care.

Consider the possibility of neglect when the parent or other
adult caregiver:


• Appears to be indifferent to the child;
• Seems apathetic or depressed;
• Behaves irrationally or in a bizarre manner; or
• Is abusing alcohol or other drugs.
SIGNS OF SEXUAL ABUSE

Consider the possibility of sexual abuse when the child:

• Has difficulty walking or sitting;
• Suddenly refuses to change for gym or to participate in physical activities;
• Demonstrates bizarre, sophisticated, or unusual sexual knowledge or behavior;
• Becomes pregnant or contracts a venereal disease, particularly
if under age fourteen;
• Runs away; or
• Reports sexual abuse by a parent or another adult caregiver.

Consider the possibility of sexual abuse when the parent or
other adult caregiver:


• Is unduly protective of the child, severely limits the child's contact with
other children, especially of the opposite sex;
• Is secretive and isolated; or
• Describes marital difficulties involving family power struggles or sexual relations.
SIGNS OF EMOTIONAL MALTREATMENT

Consider the possibility of emotional maltreatment when the child:

• Shows extremes in behavior, such as overly compliant or demanding
behavior, extreme passivity or aggression;
• Is either inappropriately adult (parenting other children, for example) or
inappropriately infantile (frequently rocking or head-banging, for example);
• Is delayed in physical or emotional development;
• Has attempted suicide; or
• Reports a lack of attachment to the parent.

Consider the possibility of emotional maltreatment when the parent
or other adult caregiver:


• Constantly blames, belittles, or berates the child;
• Is unconcerned about the child and refuses to consider offers of help
for the child's school problems; or
• Overtly rejects the child.
What You Can Do: REACHOUT


Anything you do to support kids and parents can help reduce the
stress that often leads to abuse and neglect.


Be a friend to a parent you know. Ask how their children are doing.
Draw on your own experiences to provide reassurance and support. If a parent
seems to be struggling, offer to baby-sit or run errands, or just lend a friendly
ear. Show you understand.

Be a friend to a child you know.
Remember their names. Smile when
you talk with them. Ask them about their day at school. Send them a card
in the mail. Show you care.

Give your used clothing, furniture and toys for use by another family.
This can help relieve the stress of financial burdens that parents sometimes
take out on their kids.

Volunteer your time and money for programs in your community that
support children and families, like parent support groups or
day care centers.


Reach Out

Raise the Issue

Remember the Risk Factors

Recognize the Warning Signs

Report Suspected Abuse or Neglect

Reach Out

Raise the Issue

Remember the Risk Factors

Recognize the Warning Signs
Report Suspected Abuse or Neglect